Yosemite is as Spectacular as You Think!

California has never been much of a draw for me. Or maybe I should say, Southern California has never held much appeal.  I have traveled to the Los Angeles area a few times in my life, and always left wondering what the allure was about.  Sure the weather is pleasant enough, but the traffic, the desert landscape, the lack of public transit, and the lack of architectural character leave a lot to be desired.  While I have visited some lovely art galleries and flea markets in LA, and I could certainly get behind a tour of the stars’ homes, it mostly feels like a manufactured city.  Portrayals of Southern California in the media leave the impression that it is full of superficial people, or those who are full of broken dreams.

When I tell someone that I grew up in Illinois,  the immediate assumption is that I’m from Chicago.  But I hail from the cornfields in central Illinois, which are a world away from Chicago.  It took me some time before I realized that I was making this same assumption about California.  California is not just Southern California and LA.  Once we finally took the time to explore what the rest of the state has to offer – the central farmlands, the coast, and of course, the Bay Area – we were hooked.

A favored stop for us during our California road trip was Yosemite, and it is hard to find the words to explain how stunning the sight of Yosemite Valley truly is if you haven’t had the opportunity to see it for yourself.  All the pictures I’ve ever seen in books, on-line, or on television, truly don’t do it justice.  When you stand there and look across the valley, the grandeur and beauty of the natural wonders are genuinely awe-inspiring.

The view from Glacier Point – stunning!

President Abraham Lincoln signed the Yosemite Grant in 1864 which, first and foremost, protected the Yosemite Valley from development.  In later years, naturalist John Muir lobbied to include the surrounding mountains and forests within the protected zone making Yosemite the precedent for the U.S. National Park system.  Today Yosemite National Park is roughly the size of Rhode Island and averages more than 4 million visitors each year.

Todd and my travels brought us to Yosemite in late April, so the weather was pleasant during our stay and the crowds were manageable.  As a majority of park visitors do, we spent most of our time in Yosemite Valley, an area of about 6 square miles.  During winter and spring, roads in the upper elevations of the park are closed due to snow and ice cover, and we happened to visit during the three-year restoration project that has closed Mariposa Grove, a sequoia grove located near Wawona, California in the southern area of the park.  The restoration project is scheduled to be complete in June of 2018.

Our “Tunnel View” pic – a Yosemite Park view made famous by Ansel Adams.  El Capitan, Half Dome and Bridalveil Falls in the background.

During our stay in Yosemite, Todd and I stayed in Camp 4 which is a “walk-in” campground where spots are first-come, first-served and cost $6 per person, per night.  A parking lot is located adjacent to the campground and all equipment must be carried into the camp sites.  The campground is fairly primitive and not much to look at, although there are bathrooms with running water and flush toilets.  Recognized for the importance it played as the center of the development of the sport of rock climbing in the years following World War II, Camp 4 was placed on the National Register of Historic Places in 2003.  The campground continues to draw many rock climbers who use it as their home-base while climbing in the park, and many of our fellow campers could be found bouldering in the immediate areas near Camp 4 at all times of the day.

Breakfast time in Camp 4

Camp 4 has thirty-five shared tent-only sites each accommodating up to six campers.    Four bear-proof food lockers are provided at each site along with a fire ring and two picnic tables.  Todd and I arrived in the late afternoon, and although the camp was fairly full, we found an open spot easily enough.  Since it was off-season, we self-registered that evening, then had to register for the remainder of our stay with the park ranger who came on-duty the next morning at 8:30 a.m.  During high season and especially over holidays, it is important to arrive very early in the day to secure a campsite in Camp 4.

What I loved most about Camp 4 is the communal style camping.  Todd and I shared our camp site with two young couples.  Both couples were several months into extended travel adventures.  The first couple had just finished working the ski season in Vail, Colorado and were on their way to Alaska to work the summer season with a tour company.  The second couple was young professionals who had quit their jobs to take some time to see the world.  They had recently accepted jobs working the forest fire season in Oregon to earn more money to continue their travels.  They were slowly working their way up to Oregon in the coming weeks with several more National Park stops along the way.  I thoroughly enjoyed our few evenings spent with these young friends around the campfire talking into the wee hours and drinking wine.  Both of them happened to have recently traveled to Thailand.  We enjoyed hearing stories from their trips, and we shared with them about our time spent in Europe just a few weeks before.

One thing that struck me on our first evening with our young friends was a discussion about firewood.  Park regulations forbid picking up firewood in the park forests.  They also forbid bringing in firewood from other places – there is a danger of insect infestation and disease.  Firewood must be purchased locally.  Both young couples mentioned that while they had been out shopping for supplies, they had passed over firewood because of the expense.  In the store, Todd and I gasped at the purchase price, shrugged, and bought the firewood.  Who wants to camp without a fire – right?  It made me think though:  I truly admire the adventurous spirits of both these young couples.  While Todd and I have been indulging in a bit a wanderlust these last few years, and intend to do so for the foreseeable future, we are doing so after decades of professional life and from a place of more financial security.  Todd and I had kids very young, and for us, quitting a job to see the world was not an option when we were in our twenties.  But otherwise, I wonder, would we ever have considered taking such a leap of faith in our youth?  Would we have wanted to?  Is there one stage of life when travel is more fulfilling than at other stages?  Hmmm… What I do know is that at this place in our life we’ve adopted a budget traveler style, but we can also afford the firewood when we want it…. and I appreciate that in our travels.

One of our favorite days at Yosemite was spent hiking the Upper Yosemite Falls Trail.  A historic trail in the park, it was built between 1873 and 1877, and climbs to the top of Yosemite Falls, the tallest waterfall in North America.  It’s not an easy climb and I have since read that not only is the trail long – over 7 1/2 miles round trip – it’s the equivalent of climbing a little more than TWO Empire State Buildings.  Todd and I were fortunate to be at the park in spring when the falls are full from the runoff of the melting winter snows.  By late summer, the falls can dry up completely, however.

Yosemite Falls with spring waters roaring!

While on the trail, I appreciated and reflected on the amount of work it must have taken crews – given the tools and technology in the late 1800’s – to carve out such a trail.  Several areas had stair-steps carved into the granite, and I thought about what it would have been like to be a tourist on this trail so many years ago when it was new.  Certainly Todd and I would have hired men to carry our supplies for us.  Our trip to enjoy Yosemite would have likely included an entire traveling party instead of just the two of us, and our picnic lunch at the top of the falls would have been a much more elaborate affair.  The other ladies and I would have been climbing in our period dresses with our sturdy boots, and carpets would have been brought up with us to lay out on the ground before we sat down to enjoy our meal – an ordeal indeed!  (To see images of early tourists at Yosemite click here. )

All trails in Yosemite Valley can be crowded, and while we had plenty of fellow hikers along with us to the top of the falls, it really didn’t diminish the experience.  I enjoyed the sense of community along the trail as we hiked.  Because of how strenuous the hike is, there was a good deal of both mutual grumbling and mutual encouragement expressed by everyone along the route.  My legs were burning on the climb up and my knees were sore on the way down.  But as we descended, I appreciated a certain sense of accomplishment as I was finally able to be the one who could tell the tired and doubting climbers that it would indeed be worth the effort once they reached the top – the VIEW!

Yosemite is truly a one of a kind gem in the U.S. National Park system.   It took Todd and I a long time to give California a chance.  But with the grandeur and stunning natural wonder of Yosemite waiting for you…get out there SOONER rather than later.

(For complete information about Yosemite National Park click here.)

Couchsurfing- It Takes a Dose of Trust

When Todd and I share with our contemporaries how from time to time we host complete strangers in our home for overnight stays – free of charge – via Couchsurfing, we usually get a blank, disbelieving stare.  While the Couchsurfing platform connects more than 14 million people world-wide, the average age of a Couchsurfer is about twenty-eight.  When we share our experiences with them, our peers are usually hearing about Couchsurfing for the first time.  The blank stare from our 50-something year old friends is usually followed by them asking us, “How do you know they are not going to kill you in the middle of the night?”  I have to admit to them that I guess I really don’t know for sure. But in our experience, with careful consideration of who we accept for a stay, we have found participating in the Couchsurfing community to be a completely enriching experience.  (Click here for more information about Couchsurfing.)

While listening to a podcast the other day, I heard a fascinating interview from a few years ago with Rachel Botsman, who along with Roo Rogers is the author of What’s Mine is Yours:  The Rise of Collaborative Consumption.  She built a very compelling argument for the unmistakable and growing importance of the sharing economy and responsible consumption that has been fueled by the technology/communication revolution and has exploded globally:  think car-sharing platforms like Uber or Zipcar; peer-to-peer lending sites like Lending Club; fashion platforms like Rent the Runway; sites like Neighborgoods that provide a platform to borrow tools and kitchen appliances from your neighbors; and of course, home-stay sites like Airbnb and Couchsurfing.

Certainly the explosion of these collaborative sharing sites is driven by the advent of big data that connects service providers with consumers via individual platforms.  But the point Ms. Botsman makes, quite eloquently, is how the technology and the sharing economy itself actually operates on what she calls “a currency of trust” as well as, “reputation” which she defines as, “the measurement of how much a community trusts you.”  She even expands her idea to include what she calls “reputation capital” which she predicts will one day be even more important than an individual’s credit score as currency. As I listened to Ms. Botsman’s interview, her words completely validated our personal experiences with Couchsurfing and other sharing platforms.  Her book and corresponding remarks about the importance of the sharing economy are a few years old, but they resonate now more than ever as the market for such services has only increased in popularity.  (For a deeper dive on these ideas see her TED Talk here.)

Couchsurfing is a worldwide community that connects people who are willing to share their homes, or at least their time, with travelers who need a place to stay, or who are interested in meeting and spending time with locals during their journey.  Hosts are not allowed to charge fees for lodging.  Todd and I joined the platform about three years ago while living in Washington, DC.  At the time, we were planning a lengthy trip to Europe in the coming months, and I was researching budget lodging options when I came across a reference to Couchsurfing.  I immediately loved the concept and signed us up.  Todd…well, he eventually suspended his disbelief, and based on our experiences has become an enthusiastic advocate.

Much like Airbnb and other home-stay platforms, Couchsurfing revolves around members setting up an online profile using biographical information, personal pictures, and by sharing their interests.  Through a process of verification and written comments about their experiences with others, members expand their profile and develop their reputation.

When we originally signed up for Couchsurfing, my intention was to use the platform as an occasional lodging option while we traveled in Europe.  We immediately began hosting travelers in our DC apartment to grow our profile and reputation within the community.  You know – we wanted a profile that looked to others like we were NOT the kind of folks who would kill them in the middle of the night.  As it turned out, while we have hosted and met many travelers over the years, we have never ‘surfed ourselves.  The trip we took to Europe followed no set schedule.  We knew where we wanted to go and what we wanted to see, but followed no particular timeline.  We would often decide on the fly that we were ready to move on to another place with only a day or so notice to arrange transportation and lodging.  I hesitated to send Couchsurfing requests on such short notice.  I’ve never accepted last-minute requests, and don’t really know if I’d necessarily want to stay with those folks who would be willing to accept mine.  I wouldn’t want them to skip washing the sheets before I arrived because they didn’t have time – right?

Our first Couchsurfers were three college kids from the Czech Republic.  They had spent their summer working as servers at resorts in Michigan and Rhode Island, and were traveling around the U.S. before returning home.  They spent one night with us in DC and were wonderfully engaging kids to talk to.  I was surprised at how little money they had managed to make over the summer.  By the time they had paid the company that arranged placement for them, repaid their travel costs to the placement company, paid for their visas, and paid for their room and board while working, there was really very little left in their pockets.  It didn’t seem to diminish their enthusiasm for their adventure, however.

As I took them around DC on a one-day sightseeing whirlwind, I genuinely enjoyed learning about them and their lives at home.  One of them had just graduated from university with a degree in statistics.  I remember asking him what his plans were – was he excited to get a job and get out there and start “adulting” once he got home?  I’ll never forget his reply because he explained to me – very matter of factly – how he had no real options for finding a job in the Czech Republic.  The girls chimed in to add that having a college degree really didn’t matter, because there were no real job prospects at home.  The two girls were still in college, but all three of them clearly did not see their degree as a means to an end.  They were just marking time in university until university was over.  Maybe, they mentioned, if they could find a way to get a job in Germany they would have a future.  What struck me during this conversation was how these three young people weren’t upset or frustrated about their economic straits or necessarily striving for any change.  It just was what it was.

Another ‘surfer we hosted that I will never forget was a strange little man from Florida.  He’d spent the summer hiking in upstate New York and was making his way home via a stop in DC.  I have the good fortune to work from home, which makes me more comfortable as a Couchsurfing host.  I don’t have to leave my house with strangers in it while I’m away at work all day.  The problem with this visit was that this man never left my house either.  We had two full days of POURING rain.  He had been to DC on several occasions, and there was obviously nothing he necessarily wanted to see again that was worth going out in the weather.  So there he and I were…all day….together….in my little apartment.  He was quite a talker except when it came to what he did for a living.  He had “retired” in his late 30’s and had “gotten by” since then.  We watched a lot of news programs together.  Even though I had control of the TV remote, I had a hard time owning some of my normal rainy day viewing habits for this stranger to judge me by.  He didn’t need to know that I can easily lose several hours to a Law & Order SVU marathon.

Finally, on the second afternoon, I handed him the weekly neighborhood newspaper that listed nearby events:  lectures at American University and other spots around the city, special events and tours at the National Cathedral, author talks and book signings at local bookstores, gallery events, etc.  Luckily he found something that piqued his interest:  The National Heritage Fellowships which are lifetime honors presented to master folk and traditional artists by the National Endowment for the Arts.  The program was being held that evening at GWU and the tickets were free.  He insisted we ALL go to the program, and while I tried my best to beg off, he was having none of it.  So I called Todd at work and explained to him how we would be going out in the rain to see a world-renowned oud player when he got home that evening.

The oud is a pear shaped string instrument – much like a lute.  It is popular in Middle Eastern countries, and has been around for more than 5,000 years.  The oud player who was honored that evening, Rahim AlHaj, is originally from Iraq.  I found myself mesmerized by his playing of an instrument that until that afternoon I had never heard of.  It was beautiful.  But more than that, his story was captivating.  As an accomplished artist and musician, he’d been persecuted in Iraq for his political activism.  Arrested more than once, he spent time in prison being tortured by Saddam Hussein’s regime.  He told the story of always crossing his arms and tucking his hands under his arms during torture to keep his tormentors from breaking his hands or fingers during the sessions.  He eventually made his way to the U.S. as a political refuge and became a citizen.  Rahim worked as a dishwasher and security guard before being able to re-establish himself as a world-class musician.

The entire evening was filled with engaging artists, their stories, and performances or examples of their work, such as a ladies quilting bee from Alabama, several singers, a Slovakian straw artist, a Japanese classical dancer, and many more.  Now looking back on it – Todd and I always recall this particular night as one of our favorite evenings we spent during our time living in DC.  This program was something that would have otherwise stayed completely off our radar if our Couchsurfer friend from Florida hadn’t been so insistent we all attend.  We would have missed something very special.  (Find the complete list of artists honored here.)

We once hosted a deaf couple from California who came to visit their daughter to surprise her on her eighteenth birthday.  The husband read lips fairly well, but the wife and I communicated via messages on a notepad or through texting at each other while standing in the same room.  They were a very sweet couple who brought their own instant oatmeal packets along with them for breakfast each day.  I generally share any meals we are having with our Couchsurfers.  But instead, each morning, they would make their way to the kitchen to eat their oatmeal, then very carefully clean up their dishes before making their way to their daughter’s school to spend the day with her.  Unlike the strange little man from Florida, they left the apartment all day only coming home in the evening after dinner.  Delightful guests!

Above all others, our favorite Couchsurfing guest was from Iran.  He was a delightful, engaging, and extremely articulate young man who we immensely enjoyed getting to know.  I found it fascinating to talk to him about his experiences.  When traveling as an American there are times when you might just hope to keep your head down and be mistaken for a Canadian.  But, I had never taken the time to think about what it must be like to travel the world with an Iranian passport.  We loved his stories:  the hoops he had to jump through and the endless bureaucracy he navigated to get visas, and how – regardless of how much preparation he may do – he might still be turned away at a border and denied entrance to a country. How Iranians, barred from the international banking system, traveled the world without a credit card for things like car rentals, hotel and airline reservations, etc. and, of course, we enjoyed hearing about his family and his life growing up in Iran before leaving the country to study abroad.   We discussed politics in Iran and the U.S., current events, international relations, pop culture, movies, and what a crazy idea it was that Donald Trump would ever become president.   (I’d very much like to revisit that topic with him now!) We enjoyed several meals that he cooked for us over the course of his stay, and were very sad to see his visit come to an end.  Thanks to social media and email we are still able to check in with him from time to time, and I hope to meet him again one day.

I can honestly say we have only had positive experiences with Couchsurfers in our home, but there are some things to keep in mind before jumping into Couchsurfing:

  • Personal Safety:  Like any relationship, you should not stay in a situation where you don’t feel comfortable and safe.  There have been reports of robberies and even assaults although they are an extremely small percentage of all Couchsurfing connections.  But if you meet someone and it feels off, get out of the situation.  I personally would probably not ‘surf as a solo traveler nor host anyone in my home alone.  There is always more safety in numbers.  I would also think twice before hosting with small children in my house.  Sometimes we are too quick to think we know someone well because we know them digitally.  Read profiles very carefully and even read between the lines if necessary.
  •  Home Safety:  The sharing economy necessitates a mutual trust in each other and an expectation of good behavior by each individual.  But take the time to carefully think about what a stranger coming into your house could mean.  When we got ready for our first ‘surfers to arrive, it occurred to me that the room where they would be sleeping had a closet with shelving that served as our “medicine cabinet.” I quickly removed all the prescription medicines – leftover oxycodone, etc.   Todd usually keeps his wallet in a bowl in the kitchen, but brings it into our bedroom when folks are ‘surfing.  Likewise I don’t leave pieces of jewelry out on my dresser, and I’m also conscious of what I do with my purse around the house.  We’ve certainly never had any type of incident, but it’s better to consider the possibilities and be safe rather than sorry.

Couchsurfing has been an incredibly enriching experience for Todd and me.  With some careful consideration, the connections you can make and experiences you share by ‘surfing or opening your home to Couchsurfers can last a lifetime.  It can be an extraordinary way to explore new cultures and enjoy the world in a completely different way – without even leaving your house sometimes. For Todd and I, the Couchsurfing slogan completely rings true:  “You have friends all over the world, you just haven’t met them yet.”